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Address by Dr. Edward Kessler MBE at Holocaust Memorial Service at Keble College on 26 Jan 2025 and text of this address.
“A Jewish-Christian Glossary“ from the Office of the Chief Rabbi and The Church of Scotland
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Summary of 10 May 26 - Journey from Faith Learners to Faith Leaders
10 May 26 – Journey from Faith Learners to Faith Leaders
On Sunday 10 May, Beyond Difference held its most recent interfaith event at Chesham Town Hall, bringing together three Faith Learners who are each on the journey to becoming Faith Leaders: Junior Imam Usman, who has recently joined Chesham Mosque to work with Imam Arif, Rob Perkins, Curate at St. Mary’s Church, and Richard Greene, Student Rabbi, working with the South Bucks Jewish Community. Opened by Chesham Mayor, Parveiz Aslam MBE, the event explored themes including calling, community leadership, technology, misinformation, intolerance and the importance of respectful dialogue. Despite coming from different faith traditions, our speakers shared strikingly similar values around compassion, moral responsibility, service to others, and the importance of genuine human connection. The conversation repeatedly returned to the importance of face-to-face dialogue, respectful disagreement, learning from one another and the importance of community, compassion and moral guidance in everyday life.
Following the panel discussion, audience members joined small-group conversations with the speakers, creating an open and welcoming environment for deeper interfaith dialogue. Thank you to everyone who attended and contributed to such an engaging and hopeful event.
What first drew you to your faith, and how did you begin to feel called toward leadership?
Each of our speakers were drawn to faith leadership early in their careers, but they each acted on that urge at different times: one immediately, one after several years of a career, and the other after a much longer alternative career.
As future faith leaders, what kind of impact do you hope to have in your communities for example, how do you feel you can influence your congregation, local community and society?
Imam Usman described how the mosque gives an opportunity to talk about life’s problems, and encourage people to behave as good Muslims. He described how the Prophet Mohammed encouraged congregations to add water to soup so that they could share it widely with people in need. Curate Rob Perkins made a similar comment, that the Church could encourage people to behave in a morally good way and help each other.
Do you use modern technology with your congregation? Do you see it as more of an opportunity or a challenge for meaningful faith dialogue?
All our faith leaders make use of technology for communication, administration and organisation. Student Rabbi Richard Greene and Rob Perkins described how services are live streamed, and the Imam described how the call to prayer and then the audio from the mosque are shared with the congregation. Imam Usman particularly saw technology as a challenge, that young people would be drawn to online content rather that seeking advice from community elders. In a quick poll of the audience, only 1/3 thought that social media was a generally positive influence on faith. There was a question from the audience about whether an artificial intelligence could ever have faith, and Rob Perkins replied that AI is created by humans and not God, and so it can not.
Do you see an increase in challenges such as polarisation, conflict and intolerance? How do you deal with this?
Richard Greene said that the most important thing was to accept that disagreements will happen, but to always be respectful. He was previously a journalist, and from this perspective he pointed out that “bad news sells” and that the algorithm will push the most extreme views. He gave an example of the huge press coverage of the recent Golders Green stabbings, but almost no mention of Julie Siddiqi taking over 100 women to walk together show solidarity between faiths. Personally, I found this a very comforting perspective to my generally negative view of the media.
Rob Perkins also used a good analogy, that the few seconds of reaction to the extreme and intolerant views were like road rage, and that we can learn to let it go. He described the loss of nuance being characteristic of online discussion, and that we need to encourage much more face to face interaction. Imam Usman similarly described how young people need the experience and wisdom of their elders and community leaders. He praised events such as “Eid for Everyone” which encourage dialog and respect across the whole community.
Questions from the audience:
How can we encourage people to join the interfaith conversation when they don’t believe that people of different faiths should interact?
Rob Perkins said that we need to keep questioning and Richard Greene similarly described how the most important thing was that people should talk to each other and that there is always value in honest debate. He referred to a “dispute for the sake of heaven” (makhloket l’shem shamayim), which is a Jewish ethical concept defining constructive conflict aimed at discovering truth rather than winning for personal ego or power. Unlike divisive arguments, this approach is characterised by respect, compassion, and shared commitment to a higher purpose. Imam Usman said that having dialog with other religions has always been part of Islam.
How can we limit the damage of misinformation?
Rob Perkins said that we should use grace as a way of life and felt that people are getting better at it. Richard Greene agreed that people were getting better at checking facts. Imam Usman said that Islam teaches that if you share a lie and the community acts upon that lie and does harm to someone, then the sin will be on the shoulders of the person who shared the lie. Following the Southport stabbings, I believe the UK justice system tries to work in the same way.
Please can the speakers share their favourite passage from their holy text?
Rob Perkins – 1 Peter 3:18: “For Christ also suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God.”
Richard Greene – Leviticus 19: “You shall be holy, for I, the Lord, your God, am holy.”
Imam Usman – Surah Al-Hashr 59:21: states that if the Quran were revealed upon a mountain, it would humble itself and break apart in awe and fear of Allah.
Description of 15 Jun 25 Reflections on Faith & Leadership
15 Jun 25 Reflections on Faith & Leadership
Beyond Difference held our most recent event “Reflections on Faith & Leadership” on 15 Jun at Chesham Town Hall. After an introduction by new Chesham Mayor, Justine Fulford, our speakers, Revd. Canon Dave Bull, Bishop of Buckingham, Rabbi Neil Janes, Rabbi for the South Bucks Jewish Community and former Mayor and ex-Councillor Qaser Chaudhry gave us their views on Leadership.
As in previous meetings, I was struck much more by the similarities of the faiths than differences between them. All of the leaders spoke of their journey to leadership, starting through sports teams or community activity, and all stressed that it was much more important to listen than to instruct.
On the subject of selecting leaders, several of our speakers stressed the wish that leaders would avoid the populism trap, but rather take the harder route of a genuine will to do good for people. Bishop Dave expressed the wish that people would value the good character of a leader more highly.
We had complete consensus on the question “Does your religion pose a barrier to helping people from other religious backgrounds?” – no it does not! Qaser Chaudhry described how the Muslim expectation was to help not just your immediate neighbour but 40 households around you, of any faith; Bishop Dave referenced the parable of the Good Samaritan. Rabbi Neil described how, in 1930s poor North Manchester, the local soup kitchen questioned whether they should give soup to a blackshirt (Fascists of this time) in need, and their reply was that, yes of course he should have soup, but not the conversation which went with it 😊
Thank you to all those who attended and engaged with our subject with such enthusiasm, and to our speakers for eloquently addressing us.
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Beyond Difference attempts to connect faiths, beliefs and philosophies throughout the Chilterns and South Bucks. We aim to find common ground and promote harmony in the community by sharing knowledge and developing friendship, trust and understanding.
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Established in 2012 with the intention of connecting people of all faiths and beliefs, we aim to share knowledge and develop trust in order to build community harmony.
Beyond Difference was started by the Community Cohesion Officer for Chiltern District Council. We are proud our Committee includes Muslims, Christians, Jews and some individuals with no particular faith. We are all volunteers and receive no payment for our work.
From the outset, our goal has been to include people of all faiths and none.
Who we are
Arabella Norton
Arabella is the Chair of Beyond Difference.
Currently studying for a doctorate in Systematic Theology at King’s College, London, she is a married mother of three children, a former secondary school teacher of Religious Studies, and a practising Anglican.
Irfan Arif
Irfan Arif is the Vice-Chair of Beyond Difference having first joined in 2015.
He was born in Pakistan and came to the UK as a young boy. He is a Muslim, and lives in Chesham with his family. He works as a barrister, appearing in courts around England and Wales, and developed an interest in interfaith work whilst living and working amongst people of all backgrounds.
Yossi Eli
Yossi was born in Israel to Sephardic Jewish immigrants from Turkey. A software developer and a keen student of history in his spare time, he moved to the UK in 2005 and has lived in Chesham with his wife and three boys since 2008. Although an atheist, having lived in multiple countries (Israel, Turkey and the UK) Yossi recognizes the importance of faith in one’s life and identity.
Rob Collins
Rob and his wife are retired teachers; they moved to Chesham in 2009 from Harrow. Rob’s Christian life began at university in 1967 and he and his wife are members of St Mary’s church.
They have taken part in Beyond Difference since its founding in 2011. They have three (married) daughters – all teachers, and all living less than two hours away.
Iqbal Ahmed
Born in Nairobi, Iqbal attended Cathedral School in Lahore, Pakistan, before returning to Zambia. When he was nine, his father sadly passed away, and his mother made the brave decision to move the family to London. He attended grammar school here, but those early experiences shaped who he is today and he remains a humble seeker of Divine Knowledge.
He is proud to be the Senior Partner of a firm committed to standing up for people who are often overlooked or disadvantaged, making sure they have the support and representation they deserve.
Outside of work, he feels deeply fortunate to be married to the most amazing woman and to call Chesham Bois his home.
Amanda Munns
Amanda is a member of St Mary’s church , and was brought up in the Orthodox Christian tradition. She was an advisory teacher for the British Council working in inter cultural education and later an occupational therapist working with a diverse range of communities , and has two adult children who were brought up in Chesham.
She was a regular attendee at Beyond Difference events , which she found inspirational and valuable, and is very pleased to join the committee.
Saba Arif
Saba is the newest member of the committee, with a role assisting the Beyond Difference social media presence. Born and brought up in Chesham, she is a strong advocate for community cohesion and as a practising Muslim believes in harmony between people from all walks of life.
Saba says “I love this photo as it reminds me of how lucky we are to live in such beauty. “
Julie Stewart
Julie Stewart is a member of the St Aidan’s Catholic Parish in Little Chalfont. Her mum was a keen advocate of the ecumenical community in her home town and she hopes to do the same. Each time she attended a Beyond Difference session, she came away feeling inspired by the diversity of faith experiences in our local area! Now she hopes to help spread the word about the very impressive group.
Waseem Raja
Born in Amersham, but with family settled in Chesham since 1960, Waseem is a dedicated member of the Chesham Muslim community. Waseem is a member of the Chesham Mosque committee, and also a keen committee member for Beyond Difference. Within his roles, Waseem particularly enjoys meeting and working with all members of the community.
Jacques Gholam
Jacques is a retired accountant and acts as Treasurer for Beyond Difference.
He was born into a Jewish family in the Middle East and came to the UK in 1958 as a refugee.
Although he considers himself an atheist, he believes that faith binds the world and makes it a better place.
Kati Gholam
Kati has recently retired from a career in IT and is secretary and responsible for technical support for Beyond Difference. She was brought up in Chesham and returned here to bring up her own children in the lovely Chilterns.
Like her husband, Kati does not belong to any organised religion but is strong believer in the healing power of nature. She is interested in the history of, and similarities between, faiths, and how it can be a force for good.
















